A Meek and Quiet Spirit

Have you ever struggled with being too hotheaded or harsh while passionately defending something you believe in?

Hey GEM girls! Unfortunately, I have been in that situation before, more times than I'd like to admit.

I'm naturally a talkative person, persistent, and apt to argue that I'm right and the other person is wrong. I kinda remind myself of Peter. He was a natural leader and loved Jesus dearly, yet he was loud, impulsive (he cut off the high priest's servant's ear), and he lied about knowing Jesus.

None of these traits are charming in a Christian. In the courtroom, a lawyer may be applauded for their argumentative nature that gets their point across. A kid in middle school may be praised for roasting the school bully. However, as Christians, everything we do and say must be done in love.

It is possible to get your point across while being considerate of the other person's feelings. You may be tempted to raise your voice and insult them, but in the end, it isn't worth it. Jesus will fight your battles for you.

I dislike being wrong, but I've been learning that I need to own up to my own mistakes. If a person starts getting on your nerves, close your eyes (optional), take a deep breath, count to 10, and pray. Ask God to give you the strength to deal with the current situation. If the person persists in trying to annoy you, politely remove yourself from the situation.

You can have a meek and quiet spirit while still retaining the assertiveness that is sometimes needed to steer someone onto the right path. If someone is making a wrong decision, don't just let them because you want to be meek and quiet. Gently, but firmly let them know that their decision could lead to bad consequences.

One preconceived idea most people have about being meek and quiet is that you need to be quiet and not talk. That is wrong on all accounts. For instance, Jesus was humble and quiet, yet he taught large crowds, rebuked the Pharisees when they needed correction, and taught his often slow and wayward disciples. "Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction." (2 Timothy 4:2) "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness," (2 Timothy 3:16)

GEM girls, have you ever had someone get on your nerves? How did you deal with that situation? Let me know in the comments!

With Love,